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معاف کر دو ! معاف کرنے سے سکون ملتا ہے ….

نہیں ! نہیں کر سکتا میں معاف …

معاف کرنے والے ا علی ظرف ہوتے ہیں ! معاف کر دو ، بےچینی دور ہو جائے گے . معاف کر دینا چاہیے .

نہیں ہوں میں ا علی ظرف ، نہیں معاف کر سکتا ، کبھی نہیں .

معاف نہیں کرو گے ! کیا کرو گے ، انتقام لو گے ؛

ہاں انتقام لوں گا !

انتقام لو گے تو کیا آگ بوجھ جائے گے ؟ آگ بوجھ بھی گیئ تو کسک تو پھر بھی باقی رہ جائے گے .

انتقام لوں گا تو سکون آ جائے گا ، میری زندگی چھینی ہے ؛

مار ڈالو گے تو زندگی لوٹ آے گی؟ وہ اب کبھی نہیں لوٹے گی ، دوسری زندگی کو سانس لینے دو !

زندگی تو نہیں لوٹے گی لیکن قرار آ جائے گا ؛ وہی تڑپ ، وہی سسکی سننی ہے !

معاف کر دو !

قرار آ جائے گا ، لیکن کسک سدا رہے گی . مان جاؤ، ضد نہ کرو .

معاف کر دو ، معاف کر دینا چاہیے !

کیوں روتی ہے ؟ اتنا کیوں روتی ہے ؟ نہ بہا اتنے آنسو کہ جل تھل ایک ہو جائے ! بول ؛ کیوں روتی ہے ؟

نہیں معاف کیا اسنے ، روکا تھا اسے . معاف کر دو ، کسک نہ جگاؤ. پر نہیں مانا. انتقام لینا تھا اسے ، لے لیا . اب اس کسک کا کیا کروں ، تڑپ کا کیا کروں ؟

نہیں روک پا یئ، چلا گیا . اسکا انتقام پورا ہو گیا ، پر میرے دل میں کسک چھوڑ گیا اسے نہ روک پانے کی ، اسے نہ سمجھا پانے کی !

نہ رو ، اس طر ح نہ رو ؛ معاف کر دے ، اس زمیں کو معاف کر دے . اسے بنجر رہنے دے ، نہ رو !

نی سسسی تیرا لٹیا شہر بھمبور !

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35 Comments

  1. Maa’f Tu Kiya Ja Sakta Hai But Apni Be-Izzatti Ko Koi Nahi Bhula Pata …!!!
    Hope someone is reading it too and someone will show up and read it 🙂
    I shared in the morning a bit similar kind a thing on my facebook’s wall;
    http://powerofourthoughts.blogspot.com/2010/09/dont-forgive-at-your-own-peril.html
    [ if you get some time then do read especially my comment over it 🙂 ]

    • What happened wasif…..???? did someone say something harsh to you….??? hey bro, you are so generous hearted then how come one can make you senti… 🙂

      yea sure, i will but i think i should go for namaz first…..maghrib time…. coming on FB soon…. 🙂

      and yes….mauf kerna asan hota hai….be-izzati bhoolti nahi but dil bara karna parta hai….zarf paida kerna parta hai…………. it’s all about ZARF…

      if you wont forgive then how Allah will forgive you…. 🙂

      • O Control Kuriye 😛 itni speed … 😛
        Kya samajh liya aap ne … 😀
        Regarding Someone check DM on Twitter 🙂

      • LOLZ….chalo ji tussi kaindey’oo te speed holey rakhni aa’n…. 😀

        read it wasif…. you are true but there is one thing…

        It’s us who don’t want to forget…. 🙂

        otherwise there is lot to do than just keep remembering things….once you forgive, also forget…atleast try to…. 🙂

      • I can’t argue on something said by Hazrat ALI [Karam-al-ALLAH Wajho] so …
        Can agreed with you on things other than insulting, we can forgive & forget both 🙂

      • I am not saying that I go against Hadrat Ali saying…how can I ….i can never….. i have least than least value ….

        didn’t u ever practice to forget after forgiving…. ??? 🙂

      • I’ve not mean that u are going against Hazrat ALI [Karam-al-ALLAH Wajho] 🙂 what I was saying that sometime impact is so huge that u can forgive but never forget and that is why your relationship can go on but never be the same 🙂
        Yup, I’ve not practiced to forget after forgiving being no-0ne has done anything bad to I so 🙂 [ it is always opposite though :S ]

      • When you are hit by someone to the extreme extent then relationship can never last whether you forgive and forget or forgive but not forget…. 🙂

        Wasif, there is a lot to speak about things, like relationships, forgiveness but I always remember one thing that Hadrat Muhammad SWS never react back to even those who hit him with stones or abuse or threw rubbish and dirt but he always pray in their favor that Allah az’o’jal may give them Hidayat and bring them on true path, SIRAT E MUSTAQIM…..so whenever i get angry or get hurt by any, my HABIB SWS remains in my mind and heart which makes me forgive and forget….. though i am very ordinary human and can’t forget few things as Hadrat Ali said 🙂

      • Relationship do last but respect no longer there 🙂
        Masha’ALLAH, good to know you do your best to follow the footsteps of Hazrat Muhammad [SallALLAH-o-Alaih-e-WaSalam] 🙂

      • Dead relationship….

        I am very ordinary human…i have no value , i am least than least valued…dust particle might be more valuable but i am not….

        I try to be on Sirat e Mustaqim….Allah may show me the true path…. i am looking for the light that Allah az’o’jal might show me….

      • Jazak-al-ALLAH-al-Khair … Masha’ALLAH …
        ALLAH only shows us path to those who carry the real desire to walk on it. Insha’ALLAH soon HE will turn to you with more of HIS blessings. [Ameen]

      • Sum Ameen….. I hope you have heard…

        “Uth gayee jis din aik nazar, jitne khali hain sab jaam bhar jayain ge”

        I am waiting for “Aik Nazar”… Nazr e karam by Allah…. 🙂

  2. Dee! I loved it. Seriously and i also believe in Forgiving. Its a great feeling 🙂

    • you believe in forgiving Salma but also believe in forgetting…. 🙂

      both stay parallel…. try to understand…. 🙂

      • Nah! Never forget things. Remembering things makes you learn things. Learning is good.

      • learn from your mistakes but never regret upon past….move on…. 🙂

  3. DEE totatally agreed with u
    hamien maaf karna chahye coz jb allah hamien maaf karte hain to phr hum insan to bht choti makhlooq hain

    • hey princess ko to boht achi achi batain bhi patta hain…but u know what i heard k princess boht ghussa kerti hai …. that’s not good bacha… 🙂

      Ghussa ko aqal ko khaa jata hai…. 🙂

      • dee ke nae kb gusa kya n kisae????????

      • 🙂 princess naraz jo rehti hai….saddy face…. and api k sath larai…. bacha…..naraz nahi hote…ghussa nahi kerte………. 🙂

      • dee nahi kya me nae bus bht upset thi 🙂

      • arey mera bacha upset kion??? Missing mama or eid ki shopping mein kuch miss ho gaya….??? 🙂

      • bus deeeeeeeeee thi n yeah missing mama alottttttt
        n na everything is readyyyyyyyyyyy

      • Princess your mama is coming very soon…. 🙂

        how was your eid bacha?

      • eid was not gud at alll

      • arey kion bacha.. ???

      • aap fb ya twitter par online aie na i m w8 for u

  4. true but difficult thing to do..URDU is much better in this post 🙂

    • whta’s harm in practicing good things even when we practice not so good things…. 🙂

      Atleast try to Awais…. 🙂

      O really, finally u could read it without difficulty…. 😛

  5. صرف اپنی ذات سے متعلق ۔۔ معاف کرنا آسان ہے اور بھولنا بھی ۔ ۔ ۔ میں آسانی سے کر لیتا ہوں

    لیکن اگر کوئی آپ کے پیاروں کو دکھ دے تکلیف دے ۔۔ اسے معاف کرنا یا بھولنا بہت مشکل ہے ۔ ۔ ۔ میں نہیں کر پاتا ۔ ۔۔ نہ ہی معاف کرتا ہوں ۔ ۔ ۔ نہ ہی بھولتا ہوں

    کچھ چیزیں کچھ انسانوں کے بس سے باہر ہوتی ہیں
    😦

    • Ali if u can’t forget …atleast try to forgive….. even koi ap k piaron ko he kion na hurt karey….. Always remember, we are not saint and we can’t be but still we are Ummat e Muhammad SWS so at least we should practice little things which he asked us to do…. 🙂

  6. I liked it. . . alot! Muaf kar Dene Se Hum Faqt Khud Ko Hi Azaad Karte Hain , Na Muaf Karne Se Takleef Sirf Khud Hi Ko Mila Karti Hai, wise thing is to forgive but remember! Because if we forget, we might let people hurt us again 😉 but then again, Getting hurt is part of life I guess! Hum Kitne Gunehgaar Hain Lekin Phir Bhi Kitna Chahte Hain Ke Allah Humko Muaaf kar De hmmm, Kitna Hi Accha Ho Hum Bhi Muaaf Karna Seekh Jaayein. Personally I believe not forgiving is kind of a “Anaa Ki Jung” like sayin, How dare someone do this N that etc etc. Anyways, Nice entry! Allah bless, Universe

    • Allah bhi to mauf kar daity hain na Mishaal….. though we are so much sinful…. we dont follow his orders…we forget our prayers….we dont recite quran e pak….we hurt others…..we use others for our own benefits…..there is a lot we do against hukm e illahi….but Allah pak mauf kar daity hain jab hum aik ansoo bhi bahain apni ghalti per nadim ho ker…..aur hum insaan …ordinary valueless human, we cant forgive….WHY….???

      Ego is all about ME…..

      to forgive someone, one requires to forget ME….

      Allah may bless you too Mishaal…. 🙂

  7. Lot of discussion already given. But I want to just say that I some one really hurts u and u have the power to take revanche then it’s really difficult to Maaf kay do

    • Don’t be revengeful, leave everything on Allah…..he is all knower and all seeker…..

      Learn to forgive cause if you wont forgive someone for little issues then how Allah will forgive you for all your deeds….. 🙂


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